Psalm 46
1God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. 2Therefore will not we fear,
The tulip bed Orin planted a few years ago
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Son 2:11 For, lo, the winter is past, the rain is over and gone; Son 2:12 The flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtle is heard in our land;
Kathy, The photo of Orin's tulip bed gave me a start! It seems we have yet one more thing in common...because we also have a huge bed of tulips. Malcom and I and our daughter, Sue, planted 1,000 tulip bulbs in the fall of 2002 so that she could have live tulips for her May 03 wedding. The joke was on us, though. They bloomed in April and we still had to buy flowers! But since Sue and Malcom are both with Jesus now, you can imagine how precious those flowers and the memories of our time together planting them is to me.
I have been researching the topic of Grief. I have looked at it's definition. I have felt its emotion. I have seen its face, and I know it's paralyzing grip. It is just a simple five letter word with a pretty straight forward definition. At least it seemed so until I found this definition at www.thefreedictionary.com grief (gr f) n. 1. Deep mental anguish, as that arising from bereavement. See Synonyms at regret . 2. A source of deep mental anguish. 3. Annoyance or frustration: Trying to follow their directions was nothing but grief. 4. Trouble or difficulty: the griefs of trying to meet a deadline. 5. Archaic A grievance. I have been puzzled by the insidious way that in this process of grieving, it can feel as if its long bony fingers can reach out and without a sound pull you into the abyss. I found a clue in the above definition. It was in that suggestion to "See Synonyms at regret." As I searched its...
What do you say when someone is hurting? Isn't that always the first thing we think of when we are faced with the news of a new illness or tragedy? It's hard. Sometimes there just isn't anything to say. One of the best responses I have ever heard was simply this. "I don't know what to say, and I don't know what you need to hear, but I'm here." Simple and profoundly honest. I expect you want to say something helpful, I feel like that too, but I have found that words sometimes mess up the love my presence wants to convey. So I am learning to hug. I am learning to share tears. I am learning to squeeze the hands that have reached out to me and simply love. Later, there will be time for words. Now is the time to just BE. Don't let not knowing what to say ruin that. Blessings Kathy
Just wanted to say Hi, Haven't blogged for a while. Think I will start with a question for those of you who have lost someone dear to you. What was the best thing that someone did for you early in your grieving process? For me I think it was the person who wrote to me to tell me a memory about my husband that I did not know. He had taken photos at their wedding and had helped them be calm when they realized they had forgotten a detail. It was so special to be reminded of this wonderful gift that he had for helping people relax. What's yours
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The photo of Orin's tulip bed gave me a start! It seems we have yet one more thing in common...because we also have a huge bed of tulips. Malcom and I and our daughter, Sue, planted 1,000 tulip bulbs in the fall of 2002 so that she could have live tulips for her May 03 wedding. The joke was on us, though. They bloomed in April and we still had to buy flowers! But since Sue and Malcom are both with Jesus now, you can imagine how precious those flowers and the memories of our time together planting them is to me.
You all are in my prayers. Enjoy the flowers!
Love,
Carol