Just wanted to say Hi,  

Haven't blogged for a while.  

Think I will start with a question for those of you who have lost someone dear to you.

What was the best thing that someone did for you early in your grieving process?

For me I think it was the person who wrote to me to tell me a memory about my husband that I did not know.  He had taken photos at their wedding and had helped them be calm when they realized they had forgotten a detail.  It was so special to be reminded of this wonderful gift that he had for helping people relax.

What's yours

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