Psalm 46
1God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. 2Therefore will not we fear,
The tulip bed Orin planted a few years ago
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Son 2:11 For, lo, the winter is past, the rain is over and gone; Son 2:12 The flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtle is heard in our land;
Kathy, The photo of Orin's tulip bed gave me a start! It seems we have yet one more thing in common...because we also have a huge bed of tulips. Malcom and I and our daughter, Sue, planted 1,000 tulip bulbs in the fall of 2002 so that she could have live tulips for her May 03 wedding. The joke was on us, though. They bloomed in April and we still had to buy flowers! But since Sue and Malcom are both with Jesus now, you can imagine how precious those flowers and the memories of our time together planting them is to me.
It's time to write again. This is the blog that I used when Orin was sick. The blog I used through my journey with cancer. The blog I sporadically used in between then and now. I've been quilting, and grand-mothering and starting a new marriage as a pastor's wife. Now, I start another phase, as caregiver for my elderly mother. My Blog title before was Therefore will not we fear... from Psalm 46. Most of the time we didn't, but when we did, the blog title was there to remind me that God had it in the palm of his hand. As I reflected on the title, I knew, that His Word was no less important and fear no less manageable, but I realized that a new title perhaps reflected the purpose and direction of my writings. The Journey. Life is one. All of life. Not just the brief time we spend on this earth but the whole of it. It is an exciting trip, a boring trip, a sometimes difficult, sometimes painful trip. But a trip ...
Just wanted to say Hi, Haven't blogged for a while. Think I will start with a question for those of you who have lost someone dear to you. What was the best thing that someone did for you early in your grieving process? For me I think it was the person who wrote to me to tell me a memory about my husband that I did not know. He had taken photos at their wedding and had helped them be calm when they realized they had forgotten a detail. It was so special to be reminded of this wonderful gift that he had for helping people relax. What's yours
What do you say when someone is hurting? Isn't that always the first thing we think of when we are faced with the news of a new illness or tragedy? It's hard. Sometimes there just isn't anything to say. One of the best responses I have ever heard was simply this. "I don't know what to say, and I don't know what you need to hear, but I'm here." Simple and profoundly honest. I expect you want to say something helpful, I feel like that too, but I have found that words sometimes mess up the love my presence wants to convey. So I am learning to hug. I am learning to share tears. I am learning to squeeze the hands that have reached out to me and simply love. Later, there will be time for words. Now is the time to just BE. Don't let not knowing what to say ruin that. Blessings Kathy
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The photo of Orin's tulip bed gave me a start! It seems we have yet one more thing in common...because we also have a huge bed of tulips. Malcom and I and our daughter, Sue, planted 1,000 tulip bulbs in the fall of 2002 so that she could have live tulips for her May 03 wedding. The joke was on us, though. They bloomed in April and we still had to buy flowers! But since Sue and Malcom are both with Jesus now, you can imagine how precious those flowers and the memories of our time together planting them is to me.
You all are in my prayers. Enjoy the flowers!
Love,
Carol